Pure Love.

I am going to throw myself in the impossible and everlasting question. What is Love? Cause in a relationship, we can feel so many different types of love. I can only speak from my own experiences, and there is not any relationship that looks like the other. Sure there can be some similarities, but not much. At least the ones that really mattered. Some people are super romantic, others show their appreciation and love in other ways. Like always being supportive, always being there in need, accepting the other person for who he/she is (of course everyone should do that. But almost everyone have a nasty habbit of not doing it) etc.. So just because the person doesn't make a picnik with candles and feeds you with strawberry's, it does not mean that he/she doesn't love you. Everyone just have their own ways of showing it.

For me I have two types of love, there are of course more kinds out there. But why I'm going to talk about these two is because they are each others complete opposite.

We have this passionated love, you can feel the love with every inch of your body. There is nothing in this world that matters except this special person. There is no one in this world that could be better then this person. And you could sacrifice anything for this person. You do all of these cute couple things together. Like feeding each other with strawberrys... and other romantic stuff. You all know what I'm talking about. You see it in movies all the times. And that's exactly the feeling. It feels like a movie. But the passionated love also has a less attractive side. That type of relationship often have very much drama in them. The fights are just as passionated, cause there are so much feelings that it's almost not good for you. You love so much so it actualle starts hurting.

Then we have the more secure or solid love. I don't even know what to call it. But there is no drama, you feel the love and the attraction is huge. You care so much about this person. you respect this person, the love feels more light. You don't want to be without him/she but it won't kill you if you had to be apart for more then a week. The relationship is stable, secure and more solid.

You can't really lable love, since everybode apparently is uniqe. Then all love relationship must be uniqe to? We can't really compare them. We should't. Cause they are never the same. But it's still love. In a different form.

So to answer the questian about "What love is?". It's uniqe, i'ts everywhere, it's free, it's undefined. It's different every time. And i'ts always real. So can you really put relationships in the bad category and the good one? Not really. Cause one time it was good and then it was bad, then it was good again, and then bad. It's just the course of life overall. There is to sides of everything. The only thing you should think about is, is this right for me?

xoxo

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